Resolutions:

[erinlefey]

[Public]

I do have a resolution or two this time around. Namely, I need to do less and speak less. My opinions on people and things don't always need to be out there. I also don't have to act on everything.

Some things can I just let lie.

Comments

[soquili-gitli.livejournal.com]

Hm. Those are some powerful resolutions. And I know you have the strength for them.

*hugs tight*

[bramblekite.livejournal.com]

That is awesome.

I admire you for making these resolutions.

You are 100% right.

It's a neverending battle between here and now and that inner 3 year old who demands to be heard, and demands something be done about those thoughts and feelings NOW or there will be a tantrum.

Good for you. Just be sure that inner 3 year old understands that you hear her loud and clear and you respect her opinions, as bratty as they may be, and you're going to take care of her, or she'll sneak out somewhere and make a mess. :)

[made-of-paradox.livejournal.com]

If the inner 3-year-old can type, then posting to LJ as a private entry that no one else will see might help keep one from exploding with opinion.

Just a thought.

*bwahahaha!*

[bramblekite.livejournal.com]

I'd never post a public or friends locked LJ entry again, if that were the case.

But, yeah, point taken.

Re: *bwahahaha!*

[erinlefey.livejournal.com]

Well, you've noticed I haven't posted much recently. :)

One of the things I'm suspecting, about myself, is that uttering the negativity makes me more negative. And in doing so, haven't I allowed whatever fucked up situation I'm commenting about to affect ME?

And if I wrote the negative thoughts down in something even only I could see, I've still let it out into the world, and that negativity *I* threw out there is causing havoc, but just to me.

Letting it be just in my head, well, I'm forgetful. We all are. Without a reminder I've created, maybe I can let the negative go a bit better.

[red-tanya.livejournal.com]

(*HUG*)